Monday, December 29, 2014

Shadow Demons

My partner wife finally decided to go full demon, and made changes to her appearance. In fact, I was taken by surprise, when we were talking about Marsha turning her into a full demon. The difference was the look of her hair style, and having turned her digital feet into paired hoofers.

Her hair is something that reminds me of an old black and white TV show, where cannibals had long black flowing hair. And a skull bone set the hair in place. as it stood like a pole on her head. It really is long and flowing, which I always loved with women with long black hair, especially one laying on a bed.


The place we normally go to first is, Sinful Needs. Violet Studios comes close to first also, then Vendom, and then Blasphemy. Sinful Creations is mostly demon accessories, with horns, wings, and tails, and anything else an avatar may need to look decent in demon form. I seldom go to in world stores, which I did earlier in my past blogs. I just search for items now in Market Place, which lists all the items you placed in the search slot. Then poof, hundreds of items to browse over quickly by linden price, or subcategories.

 
Her new items can "sinteract" meaning interaction with anyone, depending how those items are set by the owner; group only or everyone. I took a pictures of Shadow and then Marsha logged in world, And took pictures of Mother and Daughter together. Shadow used Tor-Horror Red City for Windlight settings on the sim. I selected a setting, (which I should have written down) that made the environment more light friendly.

Picture by me
 
Picture by Shadow
Marsha has the paired pig tails on the left, and Shadow on the right. They don't look the same in the top picture, as I used a different Windlight setting. With the picture taken by Shadow, their skins looked the same.

But it really is perception what the beholder sees, to me it don't matter much as long as I have Shadow in any form.


By the campfire, under our giant mushrooms.
Yes. I know she horned me up my nose. :D
 
Was going to count her feet digits, but their a pair of hoofers now.
It all comes down to, is accepting her the way she is, and more importantly, I love her.
 

Sunday, December 28, 2014

We play by the Rules!

Their was a time I had no rules posted for Hellhole. It was a small group back then, and I knew just about everyone in the group. As the group got bigger, I posted one sign near the entrance that read;

Pets are free to use, as long as they are free to participate
in role plays, with respect to their limitations.
 
And most of the actual rules I wrote down was placed in a notecard, and given by a notecard giver stand that serves also as a traffic visitor counter. That has changed, when Lord Coronzon and I discussing what rules will be laid down as the "foundation" that will guide our roles and behaviors.
 
I missed out on this picture. But there are four Thrones now.
 
Just having looked at the recent count of my group, it has more than doubled since my returning, from around two hundred to over five hundred. With that many players in my group, it was right to post rules that all of us can agree. Perhaps improve upon as time goes on.
 
This is the following rules as of this posting:
 
All members must "Always" wear their group tags,
so everyone is aware of their status within the group.
No exceptions!
 
The distinction between "House Pets" and
"Personal Pets (Be Loved)" is to be strictly observed.
 
The "Limits" of House Pets that are not,
No Limit pets must be respected.
 
House Pets are for the use of DSA members only.
 
House Pets are to be used on site in Hellhole and not taken off site.
This is not a hunting ground for your personal home.
 
Pets are collared, branded, and given
their proper tags by the Overlords only.
 
Pets must "ALWAYS" be naked, collared, cuffed,
wearing their brands, and have RLV turned on.
 
Pets must "ALWAYS" knee in the presence of their
superiors, unless otherwise instructed.
 
Pets must "ALWAYS" ask permission
before going AFK, leaving, or logging off.
 
Dominant members must 'ALWAYS" wear their demon,
or monster form in keeping with Hellhole's demonic theme.
 
No one may sit on the Thrones in the Throne Room,
except for the Overlords.
 
Only Overlords are allowed to permanently "rez" objects, or toys!
 
Toys must be "stopped" so that poseballs
are put away to minimize lag.
 
Grifers and troublemakers will NOT be tolerated,
 and will be dealt with swiftly and decisively.
 
"Age play" is strictly forbidden and
against Linden Lab's Term of Service.
 
Users with Child Avatars must "CHANGE"
to a non child avatar, or risk being immediately ejected.
 
 
With these fifth-teen rules, they serve as guides we all follow on Hellhole. If you can abide by them, you are welcome to join us. If not, then you can create your own hell to play in.
 
 


Wednesday, December 24, 2014

Parting Ways

I never though I would be writing this, about a friend I have known a long time in SL. But it has, and I had to end it. BJ, was first introduced to me by Shadow, my pet dragon that followed Kitten (who was my first wife at the time) home. It was during the wedding reception of Kitten and I, when Shadow brought BJ to us. She was just a week old at the time, still finding her way in SL. Her first time meeting a bunch of demons. that pretty much terrified her. She did not know to stay, or flea. But I assured her at the reception, we did not plan on having human as the main course that evening.

I thought noting of it, and assumed she would be on her way. Little by little during the weeks that followed, she would IM me, "What cha doing?" and we would chat. And that is how our friendship started and grew. She was my subby, a lover, a close confidant, my aid decamp, and First Lieutenant as Enforcer of Hellhole. And most of all, I made Co-Owner of Hellhole during my absence.

Her and I have been through a lot, sided with her when it came to disputes among friends. Left a land when BJ was forced to leave by the landowner, even thou I was fine where I was. Just so she knew I backed her up and supported her. As I knew she was on the wrong side of an argument.

During the day of my wedding with Shadow (not my pet dragon). BJ brought her bad attitude with her, and tried to ruin it for me and Shadow. She came dressed as a bunny, with rabbit ears and a cotton tail. Shadow was having a private conversation with her in IM, trying to get her in proper attire. No, she insisted as she was, in a bunny outfit.

BJ in Bunny Outfit
 
Then backed out as my family representative, and stated "You should have thought of me as your family representative first." instead of Misti. So she left, taking two of her friends with her, who planned to see and stay for the wedding.

Now, I did not mind if BJ directed her bad attitude towards me. As I am used to her lack of emotional control, and can handle it. But to piss off Shadow on our wedding day, tells me BJ has no respect for herself, nor for anyone at that point. As far as I'm concerned, that was the last straw, and I decided it was time to part ways. I hated to end our friendship, but it seemed to me, she lost her self respect, and for me as well.

Previously before the wedding, she sent a notice in the group, about pets in regards to ownership and training, that was not received well by the Overlords. As she was contacted by Lord Coronzon, Mistress Katrinova, and Lady Death, that added more a negative resentment lending to the wedding. I can see she was a power keg, that exploded on my wedding day with Shadow. But there is no excuse for it.

Sindar, (BJ's lover) later IM me a few days after the wedding. About how BJ was emotionally fragile the way her relationship had been leading up to the wedding. She sent me a note card explaining the situation that occurred that week. I read it, and along how BJ became more emotionally unstable, when I ended our friendship. I felt bad about BJ, but I felt more bad for my wife Shadow, if I took BJ back. Shadow would later mention, that BJ was glad to see us ended our relationship the past year. And that pretty much helped my decision not to contact BJ, and just move on and part ways.

And too add, I also ended my relationship with Misti, now a former daughter. She caused some drama the eve of our wedding. I can't remember all the details, but she backed out as my initial family representative on the eve. She mentioned about having surgery in RL on our wedding day. Humm..? Surgery on a Saturday? I used to work in a hospital, and its usually done on an emergency situation during the weekend. I did not know how serious her health condition was in RL, and though nothing of it. And maybe it was a serious enough for an emergency procedure. That may require Inpatient stay for the weekend.

When the wedding just so happens to have ended that late afternoon, she comes in world and not even a congratulations. Yes. That made me boil! I have zero tolerance when I'm being made an ass. So good riddance, as far as Shadow and I are concerned.

It has been an interesting pre-wedding event, with these sad moments. But this too shall pass.


 

Friday, December 19, 2014

Union of Two 12-13-14

As I look back... and how Shadow and I first meet. It was on Hellhole, an island with a water fall that ran with blood. She would sit by its flowing banks... and watch the color of red flow into the eternal sea. I would stop by and keep her company, as she sat by herself. I did not know what she had in her mind. But at least I wanted her to know I cared and sat by her side. We became a couple, we parted ways, and I got another chance with her.

Through our past experience, and good fortune of events, brought our hearts together again, as a married couple in Second Life. Here is our wedding ceremony and the reception that followed.

DJ Johnny plays, "Your Beautiful" as my bride walked up the wedding aisle.

Lord Coronzon: Welcome everyone to this most joyous and solemn union of the founding Overlord of Hellhole, Kaboom Coba and his lovely fiancée Shadow Dancer.

Many of us have known Lord Kaboom Coba since the founding of Hellhole. And others most recently from his welcoming presence in Hellhole’s new incarnation. It seemed that Shadow was the one woman that kept this Handsome Devil’s interest beyond time and distance. Their love is truly a unique blessing in a world of temptations and petty jealousies that easily destroy those less sincere. So it is with great honor and humility that I get to preside over the union of these two wonderful beings. Looks at the lovely couple.

The bride and groom have created their own vows and would like to say them now so you may be witnesses. Nods to them with a beaming smile.


My dear Shadow, (she looks into his eyes and smiles...) I Kaboom Coba before this dark assembly, honor you, with all my love, attention, devotion, and all that you wish of me, as your husband, whom I hold you dear to my heart. Your heart and the love within is the precious gift I have of you. I guard it against grief, despair, hopelessness, and loneliness. I fortify it by placing my heart by it, with love, caring, understanding, and patience. This I vow as your husband, and sealed with a kiss and locked by my heart. I love you, my dear wife Shadow.

Scarlett sighs. Shadow*takes a deep breath with eyes filled with water.. and tries to remember what she had... looks into his eyes and starts to talk.

My dear Kaboom... I believe in you, the Demon you will grow to be and the couple we will be together. With my whole heart, I take you as my husband, acknowledging and accepting your faults and strengths, as you do mine. I promise to be faithful and supportive and to always make our family’s love and happiness my priority. I will be yours in plenty and in want, in sickness and in health, in failure and in triumph. I will dream with you, celebrate with you and walk beside you through whatever our lives may bring. You are my Demon... my love and my life, today and always. I Love You...

(smiles at Shadow with the vows she recited. She smiles up at him...)

Scarlett wipes away a tear. Lord Coronzon smiles at the beautiful words, looking at the Overlord Kaboom.

Lord Kaboom Coba, will you take Shadow Dancer to be your wife as you have taken her as your partner? Do you commit yourself to her happiness and self-fulfillment as an immortal being? Do you promise to love, honor, and trust her in adversity and prosperity, through the difficulties of time and space, and to be true and loyal to her unto eternity itself?

I do. (she smiles at me)

Lord Coronzon Nods and turns his attention to the Lady Shadow.

Lady Shadow, will you take Kaboom Coba to be your husband as you have taken him as your partner? Do you commit yourself to his happiness and self-fulfillment as an immortal being? Do you promise to love, honor, and trust him in adversity and prosperity, through the difficulties of time and space, and to be true and loyal to him unto eternity itself?

(Shadow *smiles at her love*) A million times... I Do! (I smile with glee.)

Lord Coronzon Grins broadly. If there be any who are opposed to this union, speak now or forever remain silent having had your chance. Pauses for a moment.

With the power vested in me, by the Ultimate Shining Darkness itself. I now pronounce you Husband and Wife. Ave Satanas! You may kiss your wife.

I turn to Shadow and kisses her lips, as she kisses me in return. (our kiss huds failed that day.)

DJ Johnny plays "Come Away With Me." As we walked down the aisle to our wedding reception.

Our first dance, DJ Johnny played "Faithfully." Katrinova provided a couples dance machine.

Shadow and I dancing to "Faithfully"
 
I was having issues that day with lag, crashing, and rezzing. But I made it through the wedding ceremony. I clicked on the couples machine, and ended up fisting my new wife in front of our friends and guests. I felt so embarrassed and bad for my wife. Everyone laughed, or to some extent surprised! And of course I did not see this going on since I just clicked and jumped on the ball I selected for our first dance. I told my wife to take control of the situation.

It was a great ceremony and our friends enjoyed themselves. Ariel came back on Hellhole, in time for the ceremony. Tig, my demon son, whom I seldom see was present. Julia my daughter. Lady Death, our newest Overlord was present with her minions.

I dedicated a song for Lord Coronzon, "Highway to Hell."

The wedding had distractions, which I will elaborate in my next blog.

The following avatars made it possible for a wonderful wedding for Shadow and I:

Kevin for the Wedding Invitations Sign and Notecard giver.
Brendan, family representative for Shadow and for audio stream tech support during the wedding.
Lord Coronzon as Dark Minister of Ceremony
Ceremony Pets: Kammie, Scarlett, Ulechka, BearySexy, Servil
Marsha my family representative.
Katrinova for the BDSM Couples Dance Machine

Music selection for the reception were the following:

Faithfully - Journey
We Belong - Pat Benatar
You and Me - Lifehouse
Marry You - Bruno Mars
Straight From the Heart - Bryan Adams
Come Away With Me - Nora Jones
Your Beautiful - James Blunt
A Thousand Years - Christina Perry
Never Gonna Be Alone - Michele
Fallin - Alicia Keys
Your In My Heart - Rod Stewart
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Ring of Fire - Johnny Cash
Let the Bodies Hit the Floor - Drowning Pool
Bad Things - Jace Everett
Sympathy for the Devil - Rolling Stones